Every one of us must have gone through the wonderful feeling of love which is not exactly love but it is actually crush. Many youngsters are such that they have been through this feeling couple of times but still each time they get this feeling it is as purest as they had it verry first time in life.
We think that if a person who had been through this feeling couple of time must be having habit of this feeling and even if they don’t achiev their love they might not suffer much as it might be just ‘time pass’ for them, but dis is absolutely wrong .
Person who had been in love in past and had recived nothing but the pain; also bears the same amount of pain which a person bears when he gets hurt for the first time.
The person whos got hurt many times in past may not easily fall in love once again but if the feeling of love grab holds heart of that person than that person has no less to suffer pain than the person who was freshly in love and got hurt.
Both, the one who has been in love for the first time and the one who had been in love before; takes same duration of time to forget their loved once by whom they were ditched or were rejected or maybe hurt by any other way. The only difference is that the person who had been in love before will be aware of how to deal with the situation and try to divert mind from the person who he loved.
But even after knowing the ways to deal with situation it is never an easy task for him to implement those ways.
People who are ditched again and again are considered as habituated in peoples view and people think that the person who falls again n again in love has no feelings and does just time pass in name of love. Bt none of them try to find out the reason WHY that person is falling in love again n again, the only reason behind it is; unless you find someone who can take care of yourself better than your previous love or person who can understand you more than your previous love could, you will never be able to move on in life.
If you try to live as single she will be always there in your mind and occupy a soft corner which will always hurt you in some or the other way.
My aim of writing this is just to say please don’t judge people on their past life, having few ex GF’s and BF’s doesn’t mean that the person is just fake and flirt…
may possible that he/she couldn’t carry forward their past relationships because of lack of chemistry between two persons or maybe too much of possessiveness from other person which may be the serios reson for irritation and breakups and some of them weren’t able to understand each other or because of dominating nature of other person etc etc..
There are too many reasons of breakups apart from time pass and getting bored from one person.
There are some people who don’t disclose their past life in front of their current crush or love, which may cause problems in their relationship and may result into lose of trust. But have you ever tried to find out reason why your loved once have not disclosed or hesitated to discuss with you about their past life??? NO Ryt??
Many of them just don’t share because they still have soft corner for their Ex’s which may hurt them a lot when they talk upon it or discuss on it Or the other reason behind hiding maybe because they know that after sharing past life their current partner may ask them en-number of questions about their Ex which hurts a lot. Because, it took them quit long time to forget everything, but few questions raised by someone about their past may pour salt on wounds and those wounds will keep on burning again for long period of time..
So, if you love someone truly then try to trust and understand them. If you cant trust them then try to be their besty and try to know the reason behind them hiding anything from you rather than fighting with them for not disclosing everything!!
THANK YOU...!!
